How To Do Your Holiday Shopping Through Rebate Sites

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Last updated on January 27, 2021 Comments: 10

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This article is presented by VCMcGuire, a regular contributor to the New York Times and other publications.

I hate shopping. A lot. I have been known to buy the wrong thing, for the wrong price, just to get out of the store.

Buying gifts is the worst. Here’s what happens on a typical shopping trip before Christmas. I’m standing in a store, holding something in my hand, and I’m thinking, “Will this book/sweater/candle show my grandma/father/spouse how much I love them? Do I really know them well enough to know what they will like?”

This is followed closely by another glance at the price tag, and the realization that this month’s credit card bill is going to be bigger than our mortgage payment. Right about then, somebody usually starts hanging on my arm and asking if we can please buy a soft pretzel now, Mom?

That’s when I either convince myself that my father will love that shade of fuschia, or I walk out of the store empty-handed.

Thank god for online shopping. I can do it at home. I can find the best price. In most cases I can find the perfect color and size. And by spending a few extra minutes, I can often get a pretty good discount on my purchase. My goal is to get a discount big enough to cover the shipping charges.

I do this by using a third-party cash back site to get a rebate. I’m a member of several rebate sites, and most of the online stores I buy from participate in at least one of these programs.

But how can you find out whether, say,, participates in any rebate programs?

I use a site called Ev’Reward. (Flexo reviewed Ev’Reward back in 2006.) This site lets you plug in the name of a store and find coupons, or rebate sites that will give you a kickback. Online coupons consist of a code you can enter before you buy, and your savings are instantaneous. Rewards sites usually require you to sign up for an account, then click through from their site to the retailer. Once you have accounts with a few rewards sites, though, this is pretty fast. The downside is you have to wait to get your rebate–usually about 90 days from the date of purchase. This gives the retailer time to make sure you’re not going to return your purchase.

I’ve tried a number of rewards programs, and I’ve got my list narrowed down to about four that I use on a regular basis. I don’t participate in any rewards programs that cost money to join. And I don’t use any of my travel reward accounts for this purpose. I get miles and hotel points when I travel, but I would rather have cash money as a rebate for shopping, not miles or points.

Here are my favorite rewards sites, and a summary of their advantages.

  • Fat Wallet. Unlike most of its competitors, Fat Wallet has no minimum balance before you can withdraw your money. You still have to wait a couple months for the rebates to clear in their system, but then you can request to be reimbursed through Paypal. The site has a lot of other good features, like a thriving discussion board for bargain hunters, that make it worth a longer visit.
  • Mr. Rebates. This site often has the highest rebates for specific merchants. Recently, the minimum withdrawal was lowered to $10, making Mr. Rebates more attractive. This site also has the best referral program. You don’t get anything when you initially refer a friend, but you get 20% of all their rebates for as long as they’re members. If you refer a few big-time online shoppers, you can earn a steady trickle of passive income.
  • Ebates. Ebates also has relatively high rebates compared to other sites. Another plus is that they automatically send your rebates quarterly once you reach the $10 minimum pay-out. That means you don’t have to remember to come back and request to be paid. Ebates also has a referral program. When you refer a friend and the friend makes a purchase through Ebates, you get a $5 bonus, but there’s no ongoing kickback for your friend’s future purchases. I recently bought a bunch of school uniforms for my kindergartener from, and got 3% back from Ebates.
  • Upromise. This site’s kickbacks for online shopping are usually much lower than the other 3 I’ve mentioned, but it’s worth signing up anyway. You can register grocery store rewards cards with Upromise, and get a few cents in your Upromise account when you buy selected products. You can ask friends and family to sign up for Upromise accounts, naming your kid as a beneficiary, although some of my relatives were understandably skeeved out by the idea of letting yet another company track and analyze their spending. The rebates accumulate in your Upromise account until you roll them into a 529 college savings plan. We all know college is wicked expensive, so every little bit helps. I’ve been participating in Upromise for a few years now, and I’ve saved a few hundred dollars–enough to pay for a single textbook. Maybe.

So, with the holidays approaching, I’m looking forward to avoiding the malls and getting rebates on all my gift purchases.

I’ve probably missed some good rewards sites, and I know there are other sites besides Ev’Reward for looking up online discounts. What are your favorites?

Don’t forget to check out these recent Consumerism Commentary guest posts on couponing and smart holiday spending for more ideas.

This is a guest article by VCMcGuire, one of six finalists interested in being Consumerism Commentary’s staff writer.

Article comments

Anonymous says:

I like because it’s more focused on women. They have coupons, free shipping offers, cash back, etc. similar to eBates, along with signup and refer-a-friend bonuses.

Anonymous says:

I like Coupon Sherpa for getting discount codes and promo codes ahead of time. You can also look into and see who is participating in offering free shipping on December 17.

Anonymous says:

Thanks–I’ll check out Coupon Sherpa.

I hadn’t heard of Free Shipping Day. I think, though, I’d be too nervous to wait til Dec 17 to order Christmas gifts. I like to have them all in hand by then.

Anonymous says:

Wow ! I hate shopping too. Can certainly relate. To avoid all those headaches, online shopping is bliss. I do not even mind the shipping costs to avoid it ! But this is great info to get the best of both worlds !

Anonymous says:

I think my favorite coupon code is the “no spend code”! 🙂 I don’t think I’ll be spending any new money before bonuses are told in January, and I’ve asked everybody else not to get me anything either.

We’ll just enjoy our company. Of course though, I’ve got to get presents for my cousins and nephew! 🙂

Anonymous says:

I’ve been looking for online coupon codes for the last few years, but never thought about rebates or cash back. This has been a very enlightening read (especially Carole’s comment)! Thank you!

Anonymous says:

Interesting that you’re all Ebates users. Why Ebates and not MrRebates? I usually find their rebates are the same for the stores I frequent. I pick based on which one has a balance closer to the pay-out minimum.

Luke Landes says:

I generally stick with Ebates, but my day job offers a discount program that occasionally beats Ebates’ deals.

Anonymous says:

I keep Ebates and Extrabux bookmarked, and always check if I can link to a store through them before I make a purchase. I’ve received several hundred dollars in rebates in the past year.

Anonymous says:

I’ve used Ebates a bit and it has worked fine for me.